No More Ms Nice Girl=)

Newly Single and ready to Mingle...

Single and loving it...

Stop thinking that you need a guy to complete YOU...

Being single can be the best time of your life...

If you adopt the right attitude....

Life expands because

you are free to grab hold

of more opportunities

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Put yourself 1st

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Flirt for fun

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Reinvent yourself

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Enjoy emotional stability

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Single girls just want have fun....

An obstacle to personal change is a

boyfriend who likes you

just the way you are

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Give Her the flick...

If your friend does two of the following,

it could be time to lose her cell number:

• Steals your boyfriend
• Forgets your b'day celebration
• Often goes after a guy she knows you like
• Stands you up and doesn't bother to call
• Borrows your clothes and hands them back damaged
• Never pays back money she owes you
• Make no effort to meet you on time
• Drops you whenever she's with a new boyfriend
• Never remembers your important events like your job interview or date,when you always remember hers

     So begin to judge your friend and delete them from your list=)
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Should You Spil?

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?????

If your bestie's guy keep flirting with you,

you should not spill beans to her!

Your Girlfriend might:

• Be so in lust or love with her boyfriend that she just can't let him go and decides instead to drop you so that her relationship is not at risk
• Not believe you and accuse you of making it all up because you think every guy finds you attractive
• Feel so ashamed and embarrassed that she withdraws from you abd you start to feel that your admission has damaged the friendship.Confront him about it only for him to lie,saying that you've been coming on to him.Then she may lose trust for you,even though it's not true
• Accuse you of being jelousa and trying to find ways to ruin her love life because she just doesn't want to accept that he's behaving badly

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Sharpen your social skills

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When striking up a new friendship,

make sure you lay the groundwork in the right way:

DO:

• Make the effort to be a good listener : ask questions to dram your new friend out
• Reframe what they say : summarise and repeat it so that thay know you are really paying attention
• Return the focus to them : this will prevent you hogging the conversation once you have shared a few things about yourself
• Show a sense of humour : laugh at their jokes and try to make a few casual humorous comments about yourself or your day
• Ask them how thet felt about certain event they just attended : this will help keep them talking
• Read the newspaper before you meet : then you can bring up something topical if the conversation briefly falters

DON'T

• Keep answering your cell phone : switch it off,otherwise you will appear rude
• Share too much : save your confessions or trauma stories until you know each other better
• Fiddle with your coffee cup or spoon : when you're distracted you seem like you're not really interested
• Give advice : instead ask them what they think they want to do
• Come on too strong : act casual otherwise your desperation to connect may put them off
• Push to meet again : send an email or text the next day to say you enjoyed catching up - then leave it up to them

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~nisha~